May 23, 2013

When You Were Here by Daisy Whitney

When You Were Here by Daisy Whitney
Release Date: June 4, 2013
Publisher: Little Brown
Pages: 257
Series: n/a
Review Source: Netgalley

Synopsis: (from Goodreads)
Filled with humor, raw emotion, a strong voice, and a brilliant dog named Sandy Koufax, When You Were Here explores the two most powerful forces known to man-death and love. Daisy Whitney brings her characters to life with a deft touch and resonating authenticity.

Danny's mother lost her five-year battle with cancer three weeks before his graduation-the one day that she was hanging on to see.

Now Danny is left alone, with only his memories, his dog, and his heart-breaking ex-girlfriend for company. He doesn't know how to figure out what to do with her estate, what to say for his Valedictorian speech, let alone how to live or be happy anymore.

When he gets a letter from his mom's property manager in Tokyo, where she had been going for treatment, it shows a side of his mother he never knew. So, with no other sense of direction, Danny travels to Tokyo to connect with his mother's memory and make sense of her final months, which seemed filled with more joy than Danny ever knew. There, among the cherry blossoms, temples, and crowds, and with the help of an almost-but-definitely-not Harajuku girl, he begins to see how it may not have been ancient magic or mystical treatment that kept his mother going. Perhaps, the secret of how to live lies in how she died.
My Thoughts:
Daisy Whitney has a special way with words. The things that she writes just reach out and touch my heart. It sounds cliche, but I find her writing incredibly meaningful. I love how the themes in ‘When You Were Here’ (love, life, loss, finding meaning) are universal, and yet it felt like Danny's words were meant directly for me, for me to feel & experience.

This one stands out to me, first and foremost, because of the male narrator. Danny is a lovely character: so sweet and a little bit broken as he copes with the death of his mother. The book is sad, of course, because of the theme, but it was the type of sad that I can handle. It was bittersweet throughout, with a few bursting moments of hope and renewal at the end.

The book also features two main female characters, Holland and Kana, who are very distinct from one another, and yet I adored them equally, in such different ways. I really loved the platonic friendship between Danny and Kana. It just felt so perfect to me, that representation of an incredibly meaningful relationship between a boy and a girl that wasn't romantic.

‘When You Were Here’ is sad but hopeful, and I found it to be beautiful and moving. It has a great travel aspect with Danny going to Tokyo, and also features an incredibly sweet relationship between a guy and his dog. This book is just so lovely and I highly recommend it; my first thoughts after finishing it were: 'So. Freaking. Good.'

The Cover:
Really like it!


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  1. Yay-another positive review! I am getting so psyched to read this. I'm really glad to hear about a platonic relationship between a teenage guy and girl-so unusual in YA.

  2. Ooh, a FIVE STAR READ!! But it sounds so sad! Just from your review, Danny's bringing out my Mama Bear instincts (which seem to be roused rather easily today). Poor guy -- but I love that he's a strong narrator.

    1. It was definitely sad, although not as sad as I thought it would be. Maybe I psyched myself up for it, and therefore I could handle it. But I feel like Daisy Whitney does the whole spectrum of emotions in such a wonderful way. Even when there's sadness it's not too heavy, because even though it feels real there's also hope and lighthearted moments as well. Kind of like real life. =)

  3. Ooo, so much love? We'll have to look into this one further, then. Thanks!

  4. This was on Netgalley?? So sad I missed it, but it's out already and I can just get a copy now:) This book was on my list of most anticipated books of 2013 and exactly, because Sarah Ockler is so special with words as you say! Thank you so much for your review. Now I want to read When You Were Here even more than before.

    1. I got invited by the publisher, so maybe it wasn't in the public catalogue??

      Either way, I loved it. =)


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